People with social anxiety. All insecure human beings out there! There is always somebody out there who cares. Cares more than you think. For you, your life and insecurities. Someone who thinks that all your insecurities are perfect.
My social anxiety sometimes transforms into paranoia; I might even think people think I’m useless, slow or weaker in mind. It’s really been a struggle lately. This being said, I had an experience when perceived image of myself by me was so much worse from what certain person or a friend thought of me! I just did the first mistake all insecure people out there do: considered my weaknesses and insecurities obvious to everyone, in every situation.
So it came as a surprise that people actually liked what I thought was repulsive on my personality. That people didn’t really care for that rogue strain of hair that couldn’t be combed. My presentation didn’t have to be totally perfect to catch attention of the audience. I don’t stink. I can make a nice smile. It’s not creepy to laugh from heart. And so on and so forth. Actually, I could continue like this forever. Insecurities. I hate you!
But the truth is that…
People find your insecurities human. Often it’s a way for them to connect with you on more personal level. There are so many people who would favor a flaw before perfection. Because life itself is not perfect! So just remember: